Mistress Dark Rose writes from Her private Aspley dungeon…..
Sometimes I forget just how daunting it must be to visit a Mistress for the first time, not so much for a first timer, as they don’t really know what to expect, but for someone who has seen other Mistresses and may or may not have had a good session.
I’ve recently had My share of clients who have seen a few Mistresses in the past, but not had good experiences. One client was sounded so badly he had blood in his urine for days. Another developed an anal tear which took weeks to heal after having a strap-on forcefully inserted. I was pleased they trusted Me enough to let Me revisit those activities in the correct way, which they both found delightful.
As a mature, friendly and naturally curious person, I pride Myself in being able to put My clients at ease shortly after we meet. While suspense MAY be a Mistress’ greatest weapon, knowing when to use it is the key. Dominance isn’t so much about dominating someone as teasing out their will to serve.
Take serious d, for example. He had seen other Mistresses before, but remained tense for most of his session, despite him telling Me he felt quite relaxed. I honestly didn’t think he was really enjoying his exposure to new sensations but he left beaming from ear to ear, resolved to return.
I don’t think it’s a bad thing to be uncertain about your experiences with a Mistress. A seasoned professional will lead you on a journey of profound intensity if you place trust in their judgement. But remember the rules. Make sure you place your trust in someone who deserves it.